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Wednesday, February 12, 2025

Dr .K.M.Cherian

 











Our heartfelt tributes to famous cardiothoracic surgeon KM.Cherian .

To us he was literally God .


In Nineties we wanted to get the Ventricular Septal defect or hole in heart of our mentally challenged elder daughter closed as its time for a natural closure was over and with time she would develop irreversible issues .


This was just one of Shilpas issues though she was a beautiful child almost an angel but one who did not talk or could walk only with support at 8 years .


We had no doubts regarding the surgery needed would be done at any cost ,as we did not want her to suffer at any cost by something we could find a solution .


An open heart surgery in a child wasnt easy and costs too were a bit high for us young doctors .


We were in CMC Vellore for her training and we showed her to cardiothoracic Dept there .


CMC was well known to have the best skills in south India then .

The surgeon examined her and asked us why we wanted surgery for her ?

we told obviously if we dont correct her defect she will go into cardiac failure and suffer a lot .


Then he asked but is it cost effective ? 


we did not grasp it till he repeated well spending around 1.5 lakhs ( those times a big amount ) for a special child what are we going to get back !!!!


We said She is our child whether  normal or special and we wanted best for her 

it did not depend on what we get back !

even if a normal child are you sure we will get back something ,

Do parents do whats needed for children knowing this !


He said I know you are emotional but in CMC our efforts need to focus more on normal children with a productive future instead of a special child who would be of no use to society .


The point he was making was why do something to save such a child !


It angered and saddened us that our own profession had such soul less men amongst them .


We just told then we will find out who will do and walked out literally in tears .


we had no idea where to go .


Kerala those days had only Chitra Tirunal but we both studied in Madras and we had heard of Dr Cherian in Vijaya Hospital then .

So we both went to meet him ,

I remember seeing  Dr Cherian masked in his room as he had just come from OT .


He was angry at an attender for leaving his fridge door open .

we entered a bit nervous and told him all details including what we went through in CMCH .

He made no comments , but just said I will do it  ,come in ten days planning for the surgery .


We told him

Sir we cannot afford very high costs in a private hospital as we just started our career .


He did not say anything again just told us

 Hari will talk to you .


He called Dr Haridas then his cardiologist later Dr Haridas would become HOD in Amritha hospital establishing a state of art cardiology center in kerala .


Haridas Sir would become close to us years ahead and visited Shilpa center after she left us too .


He too would pass away unfortunately .


That day an young Haridas sir took us to the ward showed us the room she would have

 ( we wanted the best for her ) told us they would help us out in all ways and Dr Cherian would do his best .


We admitted Shilpa .


with great care Cherian sir operated on her ,for him closure of a VSD was no big feat but routine but he knew Shilpa could not register her anxiety or pain like other children and she had chances of infection etc .


Premila was allowed to be with Shilpa from post op ICU as he knew this child needed her mother .


Usually this is never done as infection chances increases with more people around .


He would during rounds take great care of her .

Two days post op a nurse who was giving steam inhalation spilled hot water on Shilpa  by accident ( those days this was method used as no nebulisers ) 

The nurse pleaded to premila not to tell chief as she may lose her job

premila took up the blame .


Cherian sir was quite angry he just said no excuses for not being careful as we dont want any infections for her and a scald was potential source of infection .


luckily she improved .


The great man took no fee and gave us maximum discount .


He did all this taking great care of our baby healed her without a word or blaming anyone .


My eyes are filled with tears as I write this after three decades today .

We never met him later

Shilpa too left us 

but the great human being was God himself who came to heal her 

made her heart as good as new .


we too feel good we could do our best for Shilpa  not based on cost effectiveness.


May your great soul rest in peace Sir .


Iam sure thousands are praying same for you today .




Tuesday, July 23, 2024

Senior salutes


 This post is for Seniors .Men 

Being one for almost six years now 


Dont gripe you are old tired ignored

Play your game well you can make younger men envy you .


Best thing about age is you can advise anyone..

.. at the most they will ignore it .No loss No gain but many will walk other way when they see you

Let them

Good riddance to Bad Rubbish .


Another good thing is you can get away with offensive remarks 


The other day I told a pompous well known  tailor who delayed a work again 

"Turn around you lazy bum  I want to whack you "

and he smiled 😁..and his Asistants too did 

 something that would have got me a punch if I was younger .


Another good thing you can bug all by telling 

" in our days " ðŸĪŠ 

Most look pained when they hear this .

And lose all confidence ..They should the young upstarts 😆


With age One can Dye till you Die  ..you are expected too 

( why go around with white eyelashes like Aswathama in Kalki ) 


Young little thingies look at you fondly as you gaze at them ( some may call you DIRTY OLD MAN too !)

You can get away with forgetting most by a long sigh 

AGE U see...They Do...So what 😄


As you age You can sit all day doing nothing , 

You can play with mobile all night long 

use the restroom often for longer times and no one will object..

you are supposed to Buddy .


With age you can grumble if no one offers you a seat in a metro 

Most still wont but please grumble away 😝


With age one can eat what one wants 

At the most they will think

Let him eat not for much from now on and you can do it for decades


With age your zip can be open buttons put wrongly and your hair ruffled 

People love to whisper to you 

Saar Zip open and smile at you 


So guys dont get depressed

Make others depresed

Njoy life

Sunday, July 07, 2024

Koothaatukulam Mahadeva Temple




























Aum Trayambakam Yajamahaey
Sugandhim pusthivardanam Urvaaru kaamiva
Bandanaath mrutyor Muksheeya
Mamamritaat
Meaning
“We worship the fragrant Lord shiva who has three eyes who cultivates all beings
May he free me from death, for immortality as even a cucumber is separated from its bond with the vine “
Sree Mahadeva Shethram Koothattukulam : June 6th 2024
When I heard about a dilapidated temple with an antiquity of 1000 years in Koothattukulam Ernakulam district I wanted to go there once.
Today was the blessed day I could pray to
Sri Mahadevan the pradishta or idol of this ancient temple.
The temple is close to Koothattukulam town on road to Thodupuzha
I had an opportunity to contact Shri Rajesh who has been in forefront of renovating this crumbling edifice through Shivaswam an organisation committed to same for many years .
According to him the family who owned temple was not keen in its upkeep for causes unknown ( their version unknown ) and hence a legal tussle was on till High court decided to hand over rights of administering temple to Travancore Devasom under state Govt in 2017 .
Dewasom take over had given hope of a quick renovation .
but plenty of official obstacles, permissions and inspections were needed .
The archaeological importance as a heritage temple needed careful assessment and scientific restoration .
This could be reason for delay initially
Strangely the temple sticks to all its pujas meticulously and there is no paucity of devotees and income from it
I could talk to the main priest Sri Shinu Chandrakanth and seeing him do puja we could realise the lord was doted on by a loving priest.
The Pushpanjali I offered was done and I was able to experience the sanctified feel.
Thirumeni (priest) had told me that all rituals, festivals and pujas are done well and people flock here in spite of its upkeep.
He mentioned how the layout of the whole temple was a sloping descent where even from outside the idol can be seen clearly.
The Balikal in front too was at a low level
There was a palpable serenity and positivity felt in the temple.
One unique fact on the main idol is that the
Swayambhu idol (self-formed) is not Mahadevan or lord Shiva alone but with his family his wife Sri Parvathi Lord Ganesha and Lord Muruga his children something very unique, not seen in any shiva temples
Saastha is behind main idol naturally being his son too
Near Saastha is Bhagavathy
Mahavishnu too is near sanctum
An ancient Koovala tree grows from inner precinct too
The Chuttambalam in inner precinct too is in disrepair but beautiful to look at
Another fact was the main idol is facing east unlike normally west facing idols
The sanctum sanctorum is a round structure with a conical copper plated roof.
Though its outer wall is repainted with whitewash one can see remnants of mural arts, there are yellow and orange portions of paint seen made of vegetable dyes
Remember the original temple was built in 12 the century Ad almost 1000 years back and new present form of temple built around 1750 by Marthanda Varma
The Padipura or outer mandap just before entering the inner portion has stone pillars with sculptures a rarity in central Kerala temples.
It has two Dwarapalakas on both sides
The gable has detailed carvings
Ramayana has been depicted fully in the Balikaura roof timber scaffold
The roof of Balikapura before entering the inner sanctum made of timber in traditional kerala design. has Ramayana story in wooden carvings and Dasavathara .
The roof has holes where portions have spilled off.
The outer precinct the granite slabs as footstones were strewn irregularly
The front gopura too looks like its in verge of falling to pieces
There is a prathista for Naga devathas or serpent Goddesses and Kokkarany Bhagavathy outside
The Balikal has stone writings on the temple being rebuilt after Marthanda varma secured temple is a fine example of vaasthu shaasthra
As one comes out one sees a long platform which is said the have been a remnant to a double storeyed structure used as Ootupura or dining hall and with lamps numbering up to 100000
It was supposed to have been destroyed by the then owners
The temple is in urgent need of shoring it up as it can crumble in places if not attended to.
A pulluva paatu was sung in temple by a very talented lady on my request as an offering to God
I took more pictures and videos
History from 1750
Marthanda varma the ruler of Travancore in 17 century had invaded central kerala, the Thekkumkurs drove away the Vadakkumkurs and they sought refuge in Zamorin of Kozhikode,
It was Ramayan dhalava the commanding officer of Marthanda Varma who led the battle
Marthanda varma gave large amounts of property to both Vaikom and Etumanoor temples and rebuilt Koothattukulam temple using the best thachu artistes and included stone sculptures, murals and wood carvings .
These are more common in temples in Travancore and there is a link to the Adikesava temple in Thiruvatta, the original moolasthana of Padmanabha swamy temple.
Many carvings here are similar to those seen in the Adikesava temple.
Ramayyan dhalava also oversaw the rebuilding of this temple with artistes brought from Travancore, these records are said to be available in the kowdiar palace in Trivandrum.
After temple was rebuilt Ramayan Dhalava entrusted it to Sujheendra nambis, after this Chenaas Namboothiri, Vengasseri moothathu ,Ambakkaatu Panniker were made ooralams or authorities ,
Details on this are still said to be available in Trivandrum central vernacular records
As priest a potti from Attiman family was brought from Mavelikara
With time chenaas Namboothiri and Vengasseri moothathu families lost their hold and it was only with Ambakatu panikcer in 1950 they too left and the temple was left to hands of the Attiman family.
Marthanda varma also donated lot of lands which in Kottayam and Ernakulam district, unfortunately most land has gone to Tenants in new Tenancy rule that came into force in Kerala after it was formed
Probably the only temple in Kerala so ancient and so much in decline
In the eighties BBC selected this temple for a documentary to showcase artistry in Kerala temples
Probably because of lack of interest in any upkeep the Sivaswom trust was formed from well-wishers of the temple.
Kalletunkara Padmanabha swamys famous astrological enquiry
( Astamangala devaprasnam ) was done under auspices of Sivaswom trust and necessary rituals was done under thanthri to ward off the ill happenings .
Kannipayur Krishnan namboothripaad visited temple after this and gave needed advice
In 2011 famous architect and scientist who specialised in temple construction Dr. Benny Kuriakose was invited for an assessment by sivaswom.
He explains this temple was one of the 108 famous Shiva temples in Kerala
He details the fine wooden sculptures the dwarapalakas in stone in Balipura and the copper covered conical sanctum
He mentions of marthanda varma using best thachans to make this a house of art .
He advises early but scientific restoration preserving not only sanctity and antiquity but its priceless artistic treasures.
He tells of need to consider structural stability in any change mentioning that luckily temple though crumbling has not had any shabby cover ups so far though13 years back
Legal tussle followed between temple owners and trust
In 2017 December temple was handed to Travancore Dewasom by a high court order so that early renovation may be done
In 2020 the Government order for the same was passed
5 crores were sanctioned and the Tourism Department of Kerala entrusted with the renovation
But then Covid pandemic happened and it took away all finance and focus.
In 2022 the Tourism Department was entrusted with the work but a stay order was filed by the earlier owners
Luckily the court decided that renovation was an urgent need to save the temple from being destroyed and this could not be delayed so renovation could be started while the case continued in the courts.
According to Sri Rajesh the process has already started under the Tourism Department of Kerala.
At present I heard things are moving fast and we could hope for the much-needed work to be started soon
I Prayed to Lord Shiva for my family and friends and for this lovely but sad temple
Only Lord Shiva can open eyes and inspire the work to start and complete successfully.
A happy day to have reached this temple to become a part of its change though a small role it may be by writing this post to reach out to more people

Dr.N.Harimohan

















 

Monday, June 24, 2024

Fort Cochin

 











































A page in history ..

Fort cochin ..

As the monsoon waves slash upon its wet beach ..the rocks on its edges brace themselves to contain the foam which sluices into its crevices.

The Chinese net gently dips its trap into the turbulent sea and after some time is raised by balancing men on its bamboo poles to bring forth its twisting sparkling gasping rewards .

It's Chinese net as obviously brought here by some Chinese traveller or an early Indian tourist to China .

This has been happening for centuries .probably even when the Dutch or Portugese or the British frolicked these sands .

When the muslim traders stood in the sides of the Calvethy canal to watch the sailing dhows into distant Arabia or a Gowda saraswat konkani did his ablutions in his temple or a lone jew put his cap in the synagogue .

History is the soul of Cochin .

Its heard rasping in its breath in every corner of its blessed existence be it in the Dutch palace in Mattancherry or the beating steps of an army in the parade ground or the lonely crosses that gaze across a windy sea in the beach cemetry telling dead tales of the past .

The ferry that sails across the backwaters to Vypeen island or the modern Ro Ro that carries a dozen cars and many motorbikes across .

The huge containers that chug out of the Cochin port into the wide seas never stopping to think of the thousands of masted sailed ships that sailed these same seas over the years .

With its own delectable cuisine inimitable sea food its scenery its history this place should have been the tourist capital of the world but sadly with the visionless planners and plotters Fort cochin is doomed to an existence of filth pot holes rubbish poor lighting mudholes and weedy gardens .

Imagine if this place was owned by Dubai or Singapore 

They would be paradises on earth with every concievable entertainment food courts possible giving employment livelihood and fame for thousands .

Even if a non expert like me is given a chance I would do things better .

On our return  from Kodungallur I took the Ro Ro to reach Fort cochin from Vypeen once 

Was in need of a lunch 

So we bought  a couple of pearlspots and moved into the fast food shacks near Delta school and they made an excellent polichattu with a fish mango curry and rice and a cool mint lime to wash it down .

The cloudy weather added its flavours

A delightful afternoon in a page in history .









































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